The essential guide for confidently communicating through grief: Learn exactly what to say (and not say) during life's hardest moments

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Whether you're supporting a loved one through loss or navigating your own grief, this workbook provides clear scripts and explanations that will guide you through communicating in a way that actually has a positive impact.

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Grief & loss can be overwhelming

Are you unsure of what to say to someone who is grieving a profound loss? Do you worry about unintentionally saying the wrong thing and causing more pain?

"What to Say When You Don't Know What to Say" is a compassionate and practical eBook by industry-leading grief and loss experts Aditi Loveridge and Danyelle Kaluski. Drawing on their years of experience supporting grievers and training grief coaches, Aditi and Danyelle provide thoughtful, trauma-informed guidance for communication during life's toughest moments.

what's inside?

Loss is an inevitable part of the human experience, and this workbook equips you with the language and understanding to show up fully for yourself and others in painful times. Whether you're a caring supporter or navigating your own grief, this low-cost resource provides the tools to communicate with empathy, honesty and an open heart.

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Discover the #1 phrase to avoid and what to say instead to provide meaningful comfort

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Gain insight into why certain well-meaning condolences can unintentionally minimize pain

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Develop some "go-to" phrases to use as a supporter and griever in difficult conversations

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Understand how to "be human" and connect from the heart when there are no perfect words

This is for:

  • Anyone who wants to meaningfully support a grieving friend, family member, coworker or acquaintance
  • Those currently moving through their own grief journey who want communication tools
  • Professionals and caregivers looking to provide compassionate, effective support

kind words from customers

“Aditi and Danyelle's authentic, relatable voice and practical wisdom shines through on every page. This book is such a comforting guide to finding the right words during life's most difficult moments. ”

—Melissa

“As someone who recently experienced a devastating loss, I often struggled to put my feelings into words. This provided me with a roadmap to express myself authentically and ask for the support I needed. This workbook is a must for anyone navigating the complex journey of grief.”

—Sara

“I wish I had this workbook when I first started grieving. It's like having a wise, understanding friend guide you through the overwhelming emotions and challenges. The practical insights and phrases helped me feel more prepared to face each day and communicate my needs. I highly recommend this resource to anyone going through loss..”

—Anna

“When my best friend lost her mother, I desperately wanted to be there for her but I was terrified of saying the wrong thing. This workbook was a lifesaver! It gave me the confidence and tools to show up fully and provide meaningful support. The 'what not to say' sections were especially eye-opening. I feel so much more equipped to be a compassionate presence for my friend.”

—Preet

Loss is hard.

Talking about it doesn't have to be.